Being a tow operator can create havoc on many parts of your life. Today I want to talk about the toll this industry takes on our relationships. After talking to many operators from many parts of the country, it amazes me how many of us have lost someone we cared about because of the job.
This industry is not for the faint of heart. You need to be mentally strong and physically prepared to endure the long days you will encounter, but the loved one by your side must be equally as strong.
How many times has that phone rang at 2am, you crawl out of bed fire up the truck and head out to help that stranded motorist?
To us its business as usual, but to that loved one we left in bed its another sleepless night.
How many times has diner gone cold on the table because your "last
call" turned into a 3 hour round trip tow?How many times has "date night" turned into a ride along cause that phone won't stop ringing?
The answer is: too many times to count. We as true operators are a rare breed there is no doubt. But what is more rare is to find a partner that will stand by our side and support us through this crazy thing we call our passion.
If you find one of those rare people in the world you make sure you spoil them every chance you get and not let them get away. Although this is a passion we must prepare for life after the hook. And he or she will be there when the day is done.
To all my brothers and sister of towing I leave you with the wise words of a friend.
Lie, cheat and steal!
Lie with the ones you love at night,
Cheat death and injury.
And steal time away from this industry before it consumes you.
To all the better halves of my tow brothers and sisters I leave you some advice as well.
"Be home in 5 minutes" truly means. I want to be with you as soon as this damn phone stops ringing.
Sincerely
Shawn Michaud
WM 140989
